I mean, let’s be real for a moment. I hold standards for any guy I will ever date, and some of those things can be superficial. My type and feelings set aside, any guy a woman can expect to be serious should meet two out of three criteria:
Car, work, school.
I mean, they’re not so high of standards that makes a woman look nit-picky, but they’re high enough to prove a guy who can take care of himself.
Simply because I hold a guy to that standard doesn’t mean I don’t hold it to myself. I work a job to pay for a car that I use to commute to school, so if I’m going to judge a guy to only two of those three standards, no one can tell me it’s too high when I meet all three myself.
But that’s just me.